In a human life its not possible to live your life without hurting another persons feelings and yourself being hurt by some one.
Suppose when we common man made a mistake and really hurt someone , well I am not a
philosopher to define you types of mistakes,
just for an example let assume have you hurt your near dear ones some
day ?
We are not exceptional of course we are human being which means
we have been created to make mistakes,
just imagine have you been felt guilty for that reason if really so ,what have
you planned to overcome the pain of your
nearest and dearest one or some one else ? have you thought anything such or
just a sorry is enough for the same? or do we really apologize, or keep thinking do they forgave me for the mistake i made or someday I have to pay back.
Might be different humans have different behaviors and thoughts,
Now I don’t know
whether I am right or wrong, but for me and my heart I m great just for the
thoughts what I have
If you hurt some one without a reason and admit your mistake
later on, for me guilty and a big sorry is not a deal because
remember you are not makes only his/ her eyes cry, theirs heart also feel and I
always pray to my God don’t make a man who became a reason for breaking some
ones heart ,
So where we are yes I
was telling you about human nature that if we really hurt some one We have three principals
to overcome the persons discomfort and secure our forgiveness, and
make our self clear from burden of someone’s tears
First -------saying
sorry is in words, picture or text is not enough, its just show a word which says” I made
a mistake “its doesn't shows your feeling what types of mistake did you made and how deeply you hurt them and what really makes you feel sorry , so
don’t just say sorry , Admit you mistake, show them that you are guilty and asking for forgiveness.
Second-----Assure them you don’t ever think to make such
mistakes anymore,
Third---------Offer them with joy and happiness that
you think enough for them to forgive you ,and to do forgot the mistake you made.
Many of you might don’t like my thoughts few might thing I m
ok, but believe me just try these principals don’t think this is invention or creations
of mine , these feelings also resides in yourself I have just filtered the way of expression, separated
good and evil expression and made good
one as dominant from my point of view.
What makes things worst ?
An Ego
Apologize doesn't mean you are always wrong, It means your relationship is dominant on your ego.and you value your relationship.
Now your comments are highly appreciated which makes me feel really great.
